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Ka\u017ed\u00fd to…","datePublished":"2024-06-27","dateModified":"2024-06-27","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.cerum.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.cerum.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/087c2e57f451bc02fa8017914855d7c40cf6c7d5dc1637b868e007adc26322d1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/087c2e57f451bc02fa8017914855d7c40cf6c7d5dc1637b868e007adc26322d1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"cerum.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.cerum.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-naomi-shi-374023-1001914_3.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.cerum.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-naomi-shi-374023-1001914_3.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.cerum.cz\/pritomnost-deti\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":443,"articleBody":"Vztah k d\u011btem m\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd jin\u00fd. N\u011bkdo vylo\u017een\u011b nesn\u00e1\u0161\u00ed d\u011bti a u\u017e jenom t\u0159eba jejich p\u0159\u00edtomnost ho otravuje, n\u011bkdo zase d\u011bti naopak zbo\u017e\u0148uje. Ka\u017ed\u00fd to m\u00e1 jinak. Ale mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee tohle je p\u0159ece v po\u0159\u00e1dku. Kdyby ka\u017ed\u00fd d\u011bti miloval, nebo naopak nen\u00e1vid\u011bl, asi by to bylo trochu zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed. Naopak t\u0159eba dok\u00e1\u017eu pochopit, kdy\u017e t\u0159eba n\u011bkdo na d\u011bti nen\u00ed stav\u011bn\u00fd. Mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee u\u017e od \u00fatl\u00e9ho d\u011btstv\u00ed, nebo od puberty v\u00ed a m\u00e1 zako\u0159en\u011bn\u00e9, \u017ee prost\u011b d\u011bti ne. M\u00edsto toho se v\u011bnuje n\u011b\u010demu naprosto odli\u0161n\u00e9mu, t\u0159eba sv\u00e9 kari\u00e9\u0159e a podobn\u011b. Na druhou stranu, nikdo nikoho nem\u016f\u017ee odsuzovat. Jeden to m\u00e1 nastaven\u00e9 tak a druh\u00fd zase jinak. A je to \u010dist\u011b na ka\u017ed\u00e9m, jakou cestu si zvol\u00ed. P\u0159ijde mi ale, \u017ee v dne\u0161n\u00ed spole\u010dnosti je to vylo\u017een\u011b nastaven\u00e9 tak, \u017ee \u010dlov\u011bk by d\u00edt\u011b m\u00edt „m\u011bl“. Jako kdyby u\u017e k tomu byl p\u0159edur\u010den\u00fd. Jen\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd prost\u011b na d\u011bti nen\u00ed, a to mus\u00ed spole\u010dnost a okol\u00ed pochopit. A mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee je daleko lep\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd nen\u00e1vid\u00ed d\u011bti, d\u011bti nem\u00e1, ne\u017e kdyby je m\u011bl a potom by se akor\u00e1t tr\u00e1pil, pota\u017emo samoz\u0159ejm\u011b i ty d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 by trp\u011bly dvakr\u00e1t tolik. J\u00e1 bych to \u0159ekla tak, \u017ee \u017eena nev\u00ed, co je to mate\u0159sk\u00e1 l\u00e1ska, dokud ji sama nepozn\u00e1 a neporod\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b. J\u00e1 jsem do t\u00e9 doby taky v ur\u010dit\u00e9m smyslu nech\u00e1pala moji mamku, kdy\u017e se o m\u011b b\u00e1la, te\u010f u\u017e ji ch\u00e1pu a mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee jsem je\u0161t\u011b daleko hor\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e tenkr\u00e1t moje mamka, kdy\u017e se o m\u011b b\u00e1la. A beru to jako naprosto p\u0159irozenou v\u011bc. Prost\u011b m\u00edt strach o svoje d\u00edt\u011b je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed. J\u00e1 u\u017e t\u0159eba vid\u00edm katastrofick\u00e9 sc\u00e9n\u00e1\u0159e u\u017e jenom tehdy, kdy\u017e t\u0159eba leze po schodech. Ale na druhou stranu v\u00edm, \u017ee to um\u00ed a \u017ee je mal\u00e1 pravd\u011bpodobnost, \u017ee spadne. Ale \u010dlov\u011bk se prost\u011b boj\u00ed, a tak to je. Naopak si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee by bylo podstatn\u011b hor\u0161\u00ed, kdyby se matka o svoje d\u00edt\u011b v\u016fbec neb\u00e1la. To by sp\u00ed\u0161e n\u011bjak\u00fdm skryt\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem d\u00e1vala v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee na to d\u00edt\u011b ka\u0161le. Ale takov\u00fdch matek je na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed m\u00e1lo.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"P\u0159\u00edtomnost d\u011bt\u00ed","item":"https:\/\/www.cerum.cz\/pritomnost-deti\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]